It’s so easy to negatively label a woman a slut just because you decide you don’t like them for one of a million reasons.
The most powerful stance you can take on the slut is to fully OWN (when its safe to) that which is used against you so the people trying to tear you down, label you, stigmatise you…HAVE NO POWER OVER YOU!
Do you ever feel lonely? Loneliness can be a gift. If you listen to your feelings they have a message for you. When you are lonely you are longing for something and focusing on how you don’t have it. You might event think you can’t have it or are never going to get it. Longing […]
A woman dear to me was brought to tears when she discovered what she wanted to do with her life. She found her purpose and suddenly everything made sense. Her tears were happy – finally she could really see her own gifts (for herself and the world). Her tears were sad – along her journey she had […]
A message of love from a recovering control freak… There is absolutely no point in trying to ‘figure it all out’ because the universe is in a constant state of flux and motion. Nothing is ever fixed. Even when things appear to be predictable and you think you have it all sorted and all your […]
Our body parts hold our memories, our stories, our fears and our desires. When we let go and dance – when we follow pleasure, when we come back to the naturalness of how our body wants to move rather than how it’s been taught to move we can let go, bit by bit of the prison of our conditioning.
Being in our power as a woman is not just about being soft and flowing. We also need to have access to our fierceness. To be able to have strong boundaries, be clear about what we want and what we don’t want and be able to easily express our intensity with love and without fear or holding back is so vital.
The slut has nothing to do with how many sexual partners you have – it’s about confidence, permission, play and sexual liberation. Only when we reclaim that word shamelessly rather than seeing it as degrading or disrespectful can we really have that.
With the rise of porn and blatant lack of pleasure or intimacy within mainstream sex education the experience of feeling less than worshiped by our partners in the bedroom is sadly a pretty familiar feeling for many women. But the real devastation is that we are letting it happen because women have not met their priestess! Instead we lie back, grit our teeth or fake it, allowing our partners to slurp and take and suck and fuck us with their eyes and hearts closed because we have lost touch with the knowledge of how to guide them into something deeper, we have lost connection with ourselves and so therefor we accept what we are given.
‘Negative’ emotions are an unavoidable part of the evolutionary nature of our psyche – embrace them!! Rather than trying to push them down, avoid them and suppress them….ask yourself what isn’t in alignment right now that is demanding to be changed?